One of the lessons I learned during my 42 day cross country ride is that the only way to fully explore this country – any country – is to experience it on a bicycle.
There is simply no other way to take in the terrain of the land, the smells, sounds and sights so absolutely complete than exploring it on a bike. It became clear to me that the direct exposure to many of the essential fabrics and observations that help to understand the make up of a country, are lost in a car on any other motorized vehicle – above all, the sounds and smells.
Snakes slithering away from you in the grass on the roadside, the different melodies of birds, the sounds of leaves and tree trunks in the wind, smells of different grasses and wildflowers – even the creaking sound of metal guardrails warming up on a sunny morning, were pieces of a puzzle, each of which providing me with essential input to complete the new picture of this beautiful country I was able to see at the end of the ride.
Sure, crossing the country on a bicycle can be hard at times, some rough roads can be a real pain in the butt (pun definitely intended), crossing mountain passes on a loaded touring bike can be very challenging, and some smells and sounds I came across on this journey have to be filed in the “unpleasant” category. Most cars just stink, and there is nothing more disturbing than the loud exhaust pipes of motorcycles disrupting the peace of a beautiful and serene countryside – I also learned to identify the species of road kill by the smell it emanates – most interestingly the coffee smell of dead vultures, which actually was quite pleasant.
Here is what also became clear to me – crossing the country in a car usually limits the experience to the sights immediately surrounding the Interstate. When stopping at a gas station most people use a credit card on the pump to pay for gas, which prevents direct interaction with the folks running the place. I learned that gas stations, especially those on back roads are often meeting points and hangouts for locals, and most of my interactions with people happened during my “refueling” stops at these gas stations. Conversations usually started the moment I walked in with my helmet and cycling clothes, or dismounting my loaded bike in front of the building – most people were curious and asked questions. Not only were my answers frequently a reason to draw more people into the conversation, they also lead to other topics that provided me with a lot of insight to understand the make up of the local communities. A positive side effect of these interactions was the opportunity to educate people about the nature and symptoms of lymphedema and its treatment, which helped to make this mission of the ride really easy to accomplish.
I can’t say enough about how refreshing it was to experience that almost all people I met were genuinely friendly and helpful. In this time and age we are exposed to many things that make us believe that the goodness in people is getting lost, and I feel very fortunate that I was able to confidently push my personal restart button on this issue. There are still many good people out there who offer help without being asked, especially when they are approached with a friendly smile, which always goes a long way and makes live so much easier.
A few of the countless individuals that attest to this experience were Angela, the owner of the Barbershop Hotel in Hillsboro (Day 12), who made me one of the most delicious sandwiches I ever ate driving miles to and from her home to bring it to me, Dalip, the owner of the hotel in Sanderson (Day 19), whose mother prepared a delicious, but spicy Indian sandwich for me, and who left me numerous concerned messages to see if I made it safely to my next destination in Del Rio, the little lady who owns the Copper Mountain Hotel in Superior (Day 7) who, long time after I left, drove her car all the way up the mountain passes, just to check if I was safe……the list could go on, but I think these examples perfectly convey the lesson I learned.
Sure, there were a few grumpy people I met along the way, and there will always be some bozos behind the wheel of a motorized vehicle who seem to enjoy demonstrating their superiority over a bicycle. The key to handle these exceptions, as with all unpleasant and negative life experiences, is to not allow these few negative impressions to stick and cast a shadow over the countless great events I was fortunate to experience during this ride.
Now that I completed the ride, I can admit to the fact that there were times I seriously contemplated quitting. The relentless headwinds on days 10 and 11 and the hot day in El Paso when my chain broke are two of these examples.
However, being a realist I expected moments like this even before I started, and decided that I would deal with these situations when they arise – one way or another.
The realization that it can be difficult to stay motivated every day, and that there would be always a better day tomorrow, helped me overcome these moments.
But what really kept me going were all the people following me along from a distance during this ride – above all my wife and number one fan Susanne. We know each other for a very long time and it is not new to her that I tend to follow through with some of my crazy ideas, and it always surprises me that she lets me do whatever I want, as long as it is not too crazy.
Without her support, I wouldn’t have been able to do this ride. It was difficult to be away from the family for such a long time, but thanks to Skype, definitely the best that happened to humankind since the invention of the bicycle, we were able to chat and see each other almost on a daily basis, which helped to stay in the loop of things at home.
My friend Sara Clarke set up the fan page on Facebook, which allowed hundreds of friends, as well as people I have never met, to follow and encourage me. I am an author for LIVESTRONG Health, the online portion of the Lance Armstrong Foundation, and many members of the LIVESTRONG community followed my progress as well. Knowing that I was able to share so many of my experiences with all these individuals who were with me on a daily basis, provided me with a lot of motivation that made it easy to overcome these few low points in my journey.
I received the biggest reward when I arrived on my final destination, Wabasso Beach. To see so many friends waiting and cheering for me was much more than I expected, and I will be forever grateful to all of the people who welcomed me home that day, and those who threw a big welcome party at my local drop zone, especially my friend Rebecca, who made the most amazing “Cross Country Bicycle” cake I have ever seen.
I couldn’t have wished for a better conclusion to my cross country ride – Thank you all very, very much!